Saturday, February 17, 2018
Say What You Mean
When I was much younger I was so shy that I often would not say what was on my mind. Who am I kidding? I hardly EVER said what was on my mind. I later learned that a) no one could read my mind, and b) I didn't get what I wanted that way.
Since then I've been working on speaking assertively. Making the request. Stating the view. Clarifying my perspective. It's a work in progress. We're all a work in progress. Here's how I plan to make more progress: talk about it.
There's no point in waiting to say what you mean -- you may not get the chance again.
Say what you mean as truly as you can, with kindness.
What do you think?
-- doug smith