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Do The Work


Trust your ambition but do the work.

-- doug smith


Dreams are great, and yet it takes more. Ambition is powerful, and yet it takes more. It takes a detailed and powerful plan. It takes working each step of that plan. Even when people resist and even when team members act like anything but team members. Do the work. Build the relationship. Spend time and grow.

Trust your ambition, but do the work.

-- doug smith


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