How does it feel when you miss a goal?
It's not fun. It can be discouraging. When it happens to me I have to ask myself what went wrong. Didn't I work hard enough? Was my plan flawed? Even though I do tend to achieve most of my goals, when I miss it hurts.
Feel the hurt. Learn the lesson. Move forward. That's what I tell myself.
An unachieved goal need not break you. There are new goals ahead.
-- doug smith