Drop Those Excuses

What's your favorite excuse for avoiding your goals?

We all make them. Little reasons why we can't work on our action plan today. Rationalizations for why we won't be achieving our goals today. Lies we tell ourselves to make us feel better about missing something important.

Here are some of mine:

I won't have enough time to finish
Someone will interrupt me
I should really read some of my twitter feed to keep up with what's going on

There are more, I'm sure -- but you get the idea. What are some of your favorite excuses?

Here's the point: our excuses are not serving us well. They get in the way. They stop us from getting what we want. They slow us down.

One of the keys to achieving your goals is to drop your excuses. Just stop it. Just cut it out. Move forward and work through them.

Drop your excuses and time wasters. It's so important, it's part of my IDEAL process for achieving your goals:

IDENTIFY YOUR MISSION

DROP EXCUSES AND TIME WASTERS

ENERGIZE YOUR TEAM

ACT RELENTLESSLY ON YOUR PLAN

LEARN FROM FEEDBACK EVERYDAY

I'm willing to work on dropping my excuses today. How about you?

-- Doug Smith

If you'd like to learn more about the IDEAL process for achieving your goals, attend or schedule a session of my one-hour webinar How To Achieve Your Goals.

doug@dougsmithtraining.com

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Build and Connect

The world is full of "buts" in search of more "ands." In improv. In leadership. In life. Let go of the fear and build on what's here. -- doug smith

Better Traditions

It's easy to tear down the past and wreck the present. It does not take much thought to condemn what seems to be ill-suited for our present needs. We might even take glee in crushing part of our past. But before we do, we should ask a question or two. What if we improved our traditions instead of destroying them? What if that's a better solution? -- doug smith

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In Search of the right steps...

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Practice

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Better Feedback

The trouble with feedback is that we don't want it, or if we do we don't know how to give it, and don't know when to start or stop it. Ah, but what if we did? What if we could build a high-feedback culture where people were open to feedback and knew how to put it to immediate use? We can. It takes practice. It takes experience. It takes caring about how we do feedback and who we share it with. Here's one thing you can change immediately that will dramatically improve the feedback frequency on your team: ask for advice more often...and then really listen. Don't even call it feedback. Ask for advice and not only will everyone have some, once you show that you're open to it, they'll ask for advice in return. What's your best tip on giving and receiving feedback? -- doug smith

Found

Everyone wants to do meaningful work. Work of value. Work that matters. Work that uses your skills, your gifts, your best intentions. Is that hard to find? Does it require a massive search? Embrace the search for meaningful work but remember that it is right in front of you. -- doug smith

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