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Calibrate Your Goals


Do you like ambitious goals? 

We can stretch ourselves and our abilities with ambitious goals. It's a great way to develop. Our goals should push us and prod us and poke us forward beyond our existing limits.

But not so far that they break us. Not so much that we can't attain success. Goals are dynamic and we can calibrate them appropriately.

Pick the right sized goal for you. You can always make it bigger once it's achieved.

-- doug smith

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